Tuesday, September 25, 2012

My sister Marianne

Yesterday morning, at 7|50 am, my sister Marianne died a peaceful death in the intensive care unit of the Schepers Hospital in Emmen. My sister Erica and I had hurriedly packed our bags the evening before and made the three hour drive to be with her on time. Although Mariaane was in extremely bad shape, she knew we were with her and she was able to talk with us a little every now and then.

She had been given a year to live but that had been an optimistic estimate because in the end it was only three weeks. At least now she is in peace and free from all her pain and suffering,

Erica and I will be staying here until Friday when the cremation will be. We find a lot of support in each other and together take care of all the details that need to be arranged because her daughter is not able to.

I will write here as I get the opportunity because it is good to take a time out every now and then to gather my thoughts.


softinthehead said...

So sorry to hear your news Irene, but as you say her suffering is over. Thinking of you.

Elizabeth Musgrave said...

Just wanted you to know I am thinking of you. Glad you could be there for her.

Exmoorjane said...

Oh heck. The first post I read and such a sad one. I am so sorry, Irene... Hope you're being very kind to yourself.

Dreaming said...

My thoughts are the same as Exmoorjane's. How devastating. I hope that memories of better times sustain you through the hard times.

Reglandus White said...

Irene, so sorry to come back to you at such a sad time. Comfort comes in many ways and I hope it does not bypass you and your family.