Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Peacefulness is permitted too...


I'm sitting here in the middle of the night with a cup of coffee and a cigarette and I'm totally at peace with myself. I don't know how long this moment is going to last, because it may only be a momentary thing, but I'm going to make the most of it while I'm under its spell. 

Some feelings slip through your fingers like grains of sand and peacefulness is one of them. You have to take full advantage of it while you hold onto it for as long as you can. It can be gone like dust in the wind in no time. A feeling like peacefulness is so fleeting. 

I don't want to rationalize myself out of it and will just try to stay in this mood. It's the kindest way to be at the moment, but I'm aware of the precariousness of my situation. Once you start discussing your feelings, rationalizing them is not far away.  It's when the need for logic starts to creep in. 

I saw my psychiatrist yesterday and he told me that my rapid cycling was a reaction to the increase in my antidepressants. He said that whenever there was an increase or decrease in a medication, there would be a reaction like a pendulum that started swinging. It will stop swinging as I get adjusted to the change, because it's not the dose itself that causes the problem.

He also asked me to call him by his first name and for us to say 'you' to each other and no longer 'thee.' We've been very formal up to this point, but I suppose that we've reached that time that we can be more relaxed. It will take some time to get used to and we have to make sure that we don't overstep boundaries, but I think it will be okay. I want to make sure I don't slip into some sort of casualness. 

Today is going to be a completely empty day and I have mixed feelings about it. I appreciate the freedom that I'll have, but now that I feel better, I regret the fact that I don't do anything with it. 

It's early times, though, and I still have to wait for the antidepressants to start working properly, which will take a few weeks. I am really in limbo now and can't make any big decisions until I know what I'll end up like and how much I'll dare do. I have to wait a while for the end result. If there is ever going to be one. 

At least I've got the animals to keep me busy and enough exciting events on the news to keep me occupied. I do watch the news during the day and stay informed of the latest developments. 

I'm doing an awful lot of bonding with the dog and he seems most pleased about it. Sometimes, or a lot of times, he sits in front of me and looks at me in complete adoration. I talk to him about anything and everything and he thinks it's all just great. Sometimes he understands me and his ears perk up. Sometimes he talks back.

Well, it's time to take my peacefulness and go to sleep with it. I will lie in bed and listen to the radio until I drift off. 

I hope you're all having a good night. 

Ciao,
Nora


5 comments:

Reggie said...

Hey Nora...you are so right about that peacefulness. That could be my missing ingredient.

I'm settling in after a day of work...enjoy your moment.

Elsie Button said...

enjoy your lovely moment of peacefulness xxxx and sleep tight

Wisewebwoman said...

Sleep well Nora, glad you are adjusting.
Our canine pals are something else.
XO
WWW

Twain12 said...

hope you have a good day, if you don't see me commenting much in the next 3 weeks it will be because i'm in Germany..i hope to check in though :). I leave on Saturday morning , but still have some last minute stuff to do..please take care of yourself ♥

CAMILLA said...

Hello Nora,

I have just come across your posting through my dear blogger friend's post City Views Country Dreams.

I have not posted a blog for simply ages due to the black dog off and on.

I love my canine friend too, Daisy she lifts my spirits and is such a sweetie. I am an Owl Nora so if you are having trouble sleeping head over to Purplecoo.com blogsite I am chief Owl on the perch there late at night.